You have just been told that you or a loved one has a major illness, and your world has come to a standstill. Life is not turning out the way you planned, at least not for the immediate future. Although you did not choose to have this happen, you can choose how you cope. Knowledge will help you regain some control, lessen your fear and pain, and help you see the future in a positive light. This article offers you and your loved ones advice for coping with the practical and emotional aspects of illness.