You may not be able to decide on a budget until you estimate the number of guests you want to invite.

Write out a guest list that includes people you truly want at your wedding, trying to split the number of guests evenly between the bride and groom.

Typically, your initial invitation list will be too long for your budget. You may want to cut the list by eliminating business associates, escorts for unmarried guests and relatives who live a great distance away. Take your time, and don't overlook people you really want to share in this special day.

Down the Aisle in Style
Of course, the bridal gown is an important item to the couple, and it can be a considerable expense. Bridal magazines highlight a variety of styles and are a good place to start searching for that perfect creation. Many brides have their wedding dresses custom-made, but there are less expensive options. Purchase a dress off-the-rack, buy a sample dress, get a dress from a secondhand store, check out one of the growing number of bridal factory outlets, rent a dress or borrow one from a friend or relative.

If you opt to buy a dress, it's a good idea to have a price range in mind and to only try on dresses that fall within that range. Take your time when trying on dresses and keep notes. Also, consider bringing along a camera so you can compare dresses back at home. The process can be confusing and very emotional. You may want to take someone with you who can offer an objective opinion and help you stick to your budget.

Club Wed ... The Honeymoon
One big-ticket item that deserves some extra attention because of the emotional and financial considerations is your honeymoon. Most couples, budget permitting, go on their honeymoon soon after the wedding. The honeymoon gives you an opportunity to relax after the stress and excitement of the wedding and before you start setting up your household. But make your plans early, so you'll get your first choice of a hideaway. By starting early, you may even find discounts on airfare and accommodations.