Now that you've got a better handle on finances, create your organizational plan and put it on paper. Again, be as complete as possible. You may want two worksheets-one pre-wedding checklist and another devoted solely to the wedding day. Get an early start on your list-it's not unusual to find services and sites reserved one or two years in advance. Here is a short example of items to include on your pre-wedding checklist. You'll want to be much more detailed.

• Reserve a church or other wedding site
• Book a reception site
• Book a caterer
• Book a musician or disc jockey
• Order invitations
• Order flowers
• Book a photographer
• Register for gifts
• Order clothing
• Book honeymoon

When your big day finally arrives, it's natural to have a bad case of nerves. Undoubtedly, some minor mishap will occur, but what may seem like a disaster to you will probably go unnoticed by your guests. Most often, you'll find that all your careful planning pays off. Your main objective should be to enjoy the day and celebrate your marriage.