Moving into a nursing home is one thing; adjusting to it is quite another, for everyone in the family. Although it takes time to settle into any new living arrangement, good nursing homes often offer assistance, starting with preadmission sessions for family members.

A social worker or nursing specialist explains the emotional and physical stresses involved and shows the family how to make it easier for their loved one. For example, family members should accompany the person on moving day and be sure familiar items such as family photographs or sentimental keepsakes are displayed in the new room.

Even though someone else will meet the new resident’s daily needs, only you can provide the sense of family that is still his or her most important requirement. Nursing homes usually encourage you to take your loved one on outings, if you have a doctor’s approval. Many encourage you to join residents at mealtimes, take part in parties or social gatherings, and volunteer. Remember, regular visits from children, grandchildren, other family members and friends tell your loved one that someone cares. If you live far away, stay in frequent touch by mail and phone, and visit as often as you can.